Journeys in Self-Directed Education
Co-regulation vs. Rescue: Building Resilient Kids
How do we support anxious kids without taking over? The difference between co-regulation and rescue can shape resilience, confidence, and community life.
Self-Driven Kids Need More Than Freedom: They Need a Culture That Can Hold It
Autonomy isn’t a parenting strategy — it’s a human right. This piece explores why self-driven kids need cultures that protect agency, belonging, and trust, not control.
FAFO Parenting: When Autonomy Becomes a Shortcut for Abdication
FAFO parenting promises autonomy through natural consequences—but when does restraint become neglect? A nuanced look at what children and parents actually need.
The Adults Young People Need: What True Mentoring Looks Like
A fresh look at how adults can support young people without controlling them—modeling curiosity, vulnerability, and genuine partnership so kids can build confidence, autonomy, and emotional resilience.
The School-Age Paradox: When Kids Need Autonomy Most
We trust toddlers and adults to learn through curiosity and self-direction — so why not school-age kids? This post explores the school-age paradox, showing how free play, autonomy, and self-directed learning for kids prepare them not just for college and work, but for life itself. Discover why rigid curriculum is a poor predictor of the future — and why trusting children’s natural drive to learn matters more than ever.